How to Make Your Very Own Sleeping Sanctuary

Are you a midlife empty nester looking to transform your bedroom into a peaceful sanctuary for better sleep and relaxation? For me, THIS has been a top priority. Creating a sleep-friendly environment in your bedroom can significantly enhance your quality of rest and overall well-being. Here are some tips and tricks to help you turn your bedroom into a tranquil oasis where you can unwind and rejuvenate.

 

First and foremost, decluttering is key to creating a calming atmosphere in your bedroom. Remove any unnecessary items, such as old magazines, cluttered knick-knacks, and clothes piled up on chairs. Keeping your space tidy and organized can promote a sense of calm and relaxation, making it easier to unwind at the end of a long day.

 

Invest in high-quality bedding ( love having a duvet cover and insert for a plush, comfy bed) and pillows to elevate your sleep experience. Opt for soft, breathable fabrics like cotton or linen that feel comfortable against your skin. A supportive mattress and pillows that suit your sleeping position can make a world of difference in how well you rest at night. By adding a cooling mattress topper you can further elevate your nighttime comfort. Consider adding a cozy throw blanket or decorative cushions to enhance the comfort and aesthetics of your bed. Make your bed like a plush, inviting cloud!

Lighting plays a crucial role in creating a sleep-friendly environment. Dim the lights in the evening to signal to your body that it's time to wind down. Consider installing soft, adjustable lighting options like bedside lamps or wall sconces to create a soothing ambiance. Additionally, invest in blackout curtains or blinds to block out any unwanted light and promote better sleep quality. To up my experience and make me feel like I am on a vacation in a high end resort, I opted for these blackout blinds that are operated by remote or Alexa! I want to let the sun in first thing in the morning, but at night, I want it dark! With these shades doing the work of blocking out noise and light, I am now able to have light, breezy curtains that soften my room (and have no other function than to look pretty!) 

 

Incorporate calming colors and textures into your bedroom decor to create a serene atmosphere. Soft, neutral tones like blues, greens, and earthy hues can evoke a sense of tranquility and relaxation. Add texture with plush rugs, cozy throws, and decorative pillows to make your bedroom feel cozy and inviting. 

 

Introduce elements of nature into your bedroom to bring a sense of peace and serenity. Consider adding potted plants, fresh flowers, or nature-inspired decor to create a connection to the outdoors. Plants not only purify the air but also add a touch of greenery that can help reduce stress and promote a sense of well-being.

Create a bedtime routine to signal to your body that it's time to unwind and prepare for sleep. Engage in calming activities like reading, meditating, or practicing gentle yoga before bed to relax your mind and body. Limit screen time and avoid stimulating activities close to bedtime to ensure a restful night's sleep.

 

By following these tips and making small changes to your bedroom environment, you can transform your space into a peaceful sanctuary where you can rest, recharge, and rejuvenate. Prioritizing sleep and creating a calming atmosphere in your bedroom can have a profound impact on your overall health and well-being. So, take the time to create a sleep-friendly environment that nurtures your body and mind, and enjoy the benefits of a good night's sleep.

A few of my favorite things to make the perfect bedroom sleeping sanctuary:

 

1. Start, always, with a great mattress

2. Cotton Linen Like Textured Breathable Soft Duvet Cover (I LOVE the tannish linen grey, but it comes in multiple colors!)

3. Duvet cover insert (this is an affordable, washable one that I have loved and has held up well to repeated washing)

4. Kate Spade New York Solid 270 TC Percale Set of 4 Sheet Set, Queen Size, 100% Cotton (so soft, again, multiple color options!)

5. Decorative Throw Pillow Covers  (don't forget the pillow inserts!)

6. Always, always add a soft, cozy knit blanket with texture!

7. Boho/Farmhouse linen embroidered flowy curtains

8. These motorized blackout blinds with remote control and Alexa capability truly make your bedroom a retreat! (my favorite bedroom splurge!)

9. Costa Farms Peace Lily, indoor plant with flowers, easy to grow in a decorative pot - even my black thumb has kept THIS one alive! 

10. All bedrooms need that perfect decorative and functional mirror!

11. This is all the rage, and rightfully so: Hatch Restore, Sunrise Alarm Clock/Sound Machine/Smart Light

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