Make One, Break One: My Week 2 Update

Quick recap: Make One, Break One is a 30-Day Challenge that focuses on small steps towards a larger end goal. For my 30-Day Challenge, I chose for my "make one" habit to be: I will go on a daily 3-mile walk. For my "break one" habit: I will not drink any soda. 

 

My first week was actually easier than I anticipated. I think it's just the excitement of finally starting towards a new goal maybe? Don't get me wrong, I had some struggles, but overall, I was shocked how I quickly I seemed to adapt to it. I loved the coloring tracker and it truly helped me stay focused. 

 

I knew week 2 was going to be a tougher week on me in so many ways. For one thing, family started coming into town on Monday, my 3rd son then graduated from high school on Thursday night, family was here until the following Monday, which was also Memorial Day. So, company, emotional event/celebration, and then holiday cookout. Whew. Can we throw in any more possible distractors and temptations?!?! 😂 I was happy going into this week that I was already building momentum and determined to stick to my challenge habits. I have also learned, if I am busy throughout the day, when it comes to the evening, I'm simply worn out AND busy socializing with guests and not as motivated to walk. With that in mind, all week I woke up at 5am (about an hour early for me) and knocked my walk out immediately. I know, deep down, that I need to exercise first thing in the morning. I am NOT a morning person (that is an understatement), but there is something to waking up early, getting a workout in, and then facing the day knowing you have already accomplished so much. I have a feeling THIS aspect of a habit will make its way into a future challenge. For now, as long as I get my 3-mile walk in, I'm happy. As I learned in Week 1, Sundays are likely my biggest challenge. I truly forgot to wake up early this Sunday (my 3rd Sunday during the challenge) so my walk was missed before church. The afternoon was spent enjoying in town family (grandbaby is in town, so the NanaBoo hat was on in full force!) My son actually helped me to hang up a swing on the back porch for my granddaughter and she loves it, so, time well spent! I struggled not doing my walk, so, as evening fell, I went on a walk, but cut it short at only 2.25 miles. I was tired and decided my body needed me to simply rest. On Memorial Day, I also slept in a bit, took my grandbaby to the zoo, ate lunch with family and then went to a cookout at a friend's house. The day was jam packed, and the walk was completely skipped. I am working on making healthy habits and I won't let a missed day derail me. It would be easy to fully abandon ship. Instead, I simply missed 1 day of a 3-mile walk, and jumped right back on it the next day. No big deal. 

I missed my walk, but YEAH for cute new swing in place! 😍

Soda. Whew. I think right now is where the rubber meets the road. I've been keeping no soda in the house and that has helped me stick to my no soda breaking habit. With company in town, we had soda in the house. We also went out to eat and then went to a cookout. Several times I almost caved. But - I didn't! Woot!  I know I need to be careful because I am getting to that time where if I allow myself even a small sip or 'cheat' - I will quickly spiral back to my old ways. I have been digging down deep, reminding myself of my larger goals and sticking to the plan. It's vital to know your "why" and to keep yourself focused on the bigger picture. Truly, I have learned, again, the coloring tracker, for me, has been a life saver! It only takes me a minute to do each night, but, it gives me a moment to stop and reflect on my goals. As I color, I'm reflecting on the obstacles in my way, how my progress feels and reminding myself of the bigger picture. 

 

Have you started yet? Truly, pick a micro habit to start. Make it something you can start tomorrow. Pick another habit to break. Again, something you can start tomorrow. If you do not even know where to start, start with the goal setting guide! Where do you want to be in 5 years? What person do you want to see in the mirror? Envision who you wish to become. Change will not happen overnight. But, if you take small steps in the right direction, you will make it! And what is exciting, the hardest part is just starting. Once you start, discipline will breed discipline. So, take that first step and join me! 

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